The Age of Dip
July 13, 2024 11:26 AM Subscribe
I have thoughts about dip. Particularly the 4-way ‘Dip Selection’ that became popular in Britain in the mid-1990s. And therefore I also have thoughts about the specific context of class narratives and family economies that emerged then. Holly Pester on dip for dinner [Vittles] CW: Eating Disorders
Love dip, love this.
QFT: Decadence in poverty is a work of art in life, a releasing into indulgence. It is a reaction against precarity to create a style of behaviour instead of home. No one can take style away from you. Ask a dandy. When your styles of habit form a situation of stability – habits instead of habitats – you’ve got some agency, you’ve got a combination of actions and appetites. We can eat to create. Eat ourselves richer.
posted by chavenet at 12:00 PM on July 13 [6 favorites]
QFT: Decadence in poverty is a work of art in life, a releasing into indulgence. It is a reaction against precarity to create a style of behaviour instead of home. No one can take style away from you. Ask a dandy. When your styles of habit form a situation of stability – habits instead of habitats – you’ve got some agency, you’ve got a combination of actions and appetites. We can eat to create. Eat ourselves richer.
posted by chavenet at 12:00 PM on July 13 [6 favorites]
^ indeed chavenet, I was enjoying the writing already but those last few sentences made me pause and reread a couple of times in admiration.
posted by protorp at 12:53 PM on July 13 [2 favorites]
posted by protorp at 12:53 PM on July 13 [2 favorites]
Wow, I'd never thought about the aspirational nature of dips.
Dip stories:
After a social catch up at someone's house, (probably my first dip encounter), in the car on the way home: My parents informed us about double dipping, and that it wasn't socially acceptable. 'why didn't you tell us!!' I remember howling. Absolute shame and embarrassment. I was probably 10 or 11.
Proudly carrying the French onion dip to the sleepover location, only to fall and the bowl to shatter.
Dip was something we really rarely had, so this is vibing with me in an interesting way.
posted by freethefeet at 12:25 AM on July 14 [2 favorites]
Dip stories:
After a social catch up at someone's house, (probably my first dip encounter), in the car on the way home: My parents informed us about double dipping, and that it wasn't socially acceptable. 'why didn't you tell us!!' I remember howling. Absolute shame and embarrassment. I was probably 10 or 11.
Proudly carrying the French onion dip to the sleepover location, only to fall and the bowl to shatter.
Dip was something we really rarely had, so this is vibing with me in an interesting way.
posted by freethefeet at 12:25 AM on July 14 [2 favorites]
A dip of some sort was always present at family/friends gatherings. Not a huge fan of the stuff, myself. Unless you consider salsa a type of dip, then, yeah.
posted by Thorzdad at 5:20 AM on July 14
posted by Thorzdad at 5:20 AM on July 14
We never had dip, and I think my father was kind of against it, whereas my mother was a fan of it. It makes sense—he was against anything with extra fat or that he thought was just "entertainment, not food." She would've preferred to lead a more normal, aspirational life, I think, and it was also a staple of events like art openings.
posted by limeonaire at 10:52 AM on July 14
posted by limeonaire at 10:52 AM on July 14
Great post. I feel I have a lot to say about this, as a single mother during the 90's. Our thing wasn't crisps and dips, but taco nights. Santa Maria was the patron saint of single mother Friday nights in our neighborhood. I was cooking for a living and can make soup on a stone, so I didn't do those, but my friends did, and I enjoyed the exact thing she describes with them. The smoking, the drinks, the laughter. And also the everlasting precariousness. I'm sorry about the eating disorder ending. I'm pretty sure that happened with a few of my kids' friends too.
posted by mumimor at 1:13 PM on July 14 [1 favorite]
posted by mumimor at 1:13 PM on July 14 [1 favorite]
Grew up in the US, so outside of the specific dips and benefits context, but this brought back 100% of my childhood/teendom with an economically precarious single mom, in a neighborhood full of the same. The box of wine! The completely random assortment of items bought cheaply but meant to feel fancy. Some years it was incense, some years candles, some years gaudy wine glasses bought at the grocery with UPCs cut off of cereal boxes.
No food, though, because no benefits. Never a bite of food to spare except at Christmas and New Years.
posted by We put our faith in Blast Hardcheese at 7:19 AM on July 15
No food, though, because no benefits. Never a bite of food to spare except at Christmas and New Years.
posted by We put our faith in Blast Hardcheese at 7:19 AM on July 15
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